Elder Abuse, a Growing Problem
By 250 News
One in twelve seniors in British Columbia has been abused. “And those are only the reported cases,” says Glenda Brommeland, Coordinator of the Prince George Elder Abuse and Safety Program. “It’s a growing problem in every phase of life, for seniors living in their own homes and for those in institutions too.”
Brommeland, who is also the Chair for the PG Community Response Network (CRN), a liaison of community groups involved with seniors’ issues, believes the number of abused seniors is higher than the currently reported 8 %. “A lot of it is still hidden. People are ashamed to make that initial contact,” says Brommeland.
Elder abuse can be physical, psychological, or financial, and usually involves the senior being controlled in some way. Brommeland notes that seniors who need help aren’t always aware of the local resources that are available.
“We’re being very proactive in trying to get the information out there in the community,” says Brommeland. Today is Elder Abuse Awareness Day, and Brommeland will be at the display on elder abuse being held at the Northern Interior Health Unit.
“When people call I stress that we have resources available that I can redirect them to. We can get them the help,” says Brommeland, who also makes personal visits when needed.
Brommeland stresses that making the information available to those who call is only a first step. “If they refuse help, there’s nothing I can do. It’s sad when you know they need the help, but of course you can’t force people to take it,” says Brommeland. “We can only make sure we get them all the information they need.”
Those who have concerns about elder abuse, either for themselves or for someone else, can call the Elder Abuse Safety Line at 561-3103.
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I know my mother was abused by a sibling. Both mentally, and definitely financially.
Before my mother passed away she said, "They want me gone, they want the money."
My sibling rushed to sign the paper that there was to be no attempt at resuscitation. I had refused to sign. I wanted my mother to live. (This also could be the wrong attitude, as being kept alive by any artificial means is not really being alive).
I do not profess to have the answers.
Total control over my mother's affairs and bank accounts had been achieved. Even the grandchildren and great grandchildren were beneficiaries.
My side of the family received nothing. Contol had been 100% effective.
There will be a price to pay for extracting all that blood money through manipulation and cruelty.
What goes around--comes around!!!!!
The chickens will one day come "home to roost."
Money has never been my God-but by the grace of God, He has always made sure I had enough money. I did not have to make it by inheriting.
Blood money must come with a terrible price. I will not have to pay it.
Be kind to the elderly-you just might miss them when they are gone.