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The Written Word: Rafe Mair April 18th

By Rafe Mair

Wednesday, April 18, 2007 03:45 AM

    

The terrible shootings, murders, that took place at Virginia Tech will have people screaming for more gun registration laws both in the US and Canada, Well, that isn’t going to happen in the US and it makes no sense to talk about it here.

The fact is that mass murders are not the fault of the gun but the killer. While he can easily get a gun legally in America he can’t in Canada. But what consolation can we take from this? Because small firearms must be registered and that’s tough makes no difference to the killer. The thing that small arms registration do is, somewhat, remove the number of guns in general circulation but they scarcely keep psychopaths from acquiring them.

The lesson we should but won’t learn is that we’re a dangerous society, one that trivializes violence especially on TV, video games and at the Cinema. Children are not so much brought up to be violent. It’s just that extreme violence is so matter-of-fact in their lives. I recall a caller telling me of his grandson’s reaction to planes hitting the twin towers on 9/11 – “cool, Grampa, cool!” And why wouldn’t that be his reaction - what he saw in real life was indistinguishable from what he sees every day on TV or in his video games,

Our society hasn’t got the will to deal with this problem. It scarcely interferes with free speech if we ban shows and games that are excessively violent. If we do take the view that to do this would be to violate freedoms we must accept violence.

I think the fair analogy is to Criminal Code sections that ban hate literature if it’s directed at specific groups. Are not the shows and video games directed at young people and do we not know by now that these shows and videos do, in fact, invite violence, notwithstanding the bleats from producers that kids can sort out their violence from the real thing?

It’s past time that we took a long hard look at this.


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You don't have to go that far to find where society has trivialized , and accepted violence......in a lot of cases as a good thing!
HOCKEY covers it...
sorry hockey fans his time i know I am right and that you can enjoy it if you like....
and i still can not spell either...
In sports, what keeps the game "fair" and "honorable" is Sportsmanship. Some players do not have this in their demeanor. These are the players who deliberately hurt others and create a bad name for the sport. Blame it on the sport, not the player?? And, for the most part - sports is a rough sport! In the olden days it took a tough guy/girl to participate in some sports events, and today - it still does. When played with sportsmanship-like attitudes it is an exhilarating even although aggressive experience for those who participate. They choose to do this willingly. Nobody makes them.

Now, gun control - no such thing. Gun control can and never will be. However, start properly punishing those who use guns in violence and maybe we might see some changes. Too often people get away with criminal behaviour because they have a sad story to tell about their childhood.

The suicidal maniac who decides to take a few more people out with him just because he is going there anyways, is likely expressing his anger, frustration and helplessness. Most often these young people are bullied, badgered, teased, and generally left out of the loops for a variety of reasons. This is in no way an excuse for what they have done.

Society focuses so much time on teaching our children to be unbiased, politically correct, and indiscrimate when, in the past, children were also taught to suck it up when someone teased them, to defend themselves. It is in our nature to defend ourselves, but our children are being taught this is wrong. Confusing them much??
One look at Iraq and we can see that those that want to kill will always be able to up the anti and even the worlds most powerful army is helpless to stop it. Banning guns for law abiding citizens just sets them up to be slaughtered by nut cases that don't follow the law when they decide to kill. A good deterrent is our best defence against those types. The nut case relies on surprise with the knowledge of no deterrent from his victims. Allowing law abiding citizens to own guns balances the element of surprise and turns nut cases into the cowards they are when they know they face a deterrent to their crime.

IMO crimes like this are sensationalized by a zionist owned, controlled, and driven media with wall to wall coverage propagating the nut case reality for copy-cats to emulate. The zionist controlled Hollywood creates the norm for this kind of violence and the zionist state of Israel is the reality they would like us all to live in. The reality of pre-traumatic stress for which they will provide the solution to keep us safe. No wonder it happened on holocaust remembrance day by an arts student who studies the sickness of humanity for his degree in the reality of a world that is at war with terror.
Starts with parenting/teaching these days is how I see it. When I was in elementary school we had maybe one kid out of 30 that acted up. My kids attend the same school I did over 20 yrs. ago and the amount of kids acting up is a lot higher. Sports day is a big play day instead of competing for ribbons as they are afraid to have some kids feeling left out for not winning 1st, 2nd or 3rd. then at the end of the event they get to hop on the bus to go swimming for the afternoon after littering all over the school field. I used to play outside in my yard almost every day and todays kid is left in their room or in basement on computer of some sort playing video games. Kids in grade 3 and 4 have cell phones...and in my daughters class the girls are already clicky in their groups with designer clothes and gadgets. It's crazy. The one thing I try to teach my kids is respect for others, things and animals and most importantly their parents. They know not to cross the line as they'll face a consequence believe me and you know they really respect me for it. Lots of kids I hear back talking and swearing at their parents and the parent ignores it. Most importantly kids must feel they can talk to their parents about anything. I'm lucky (so far anyway) my kids feel they can come to me about any question they may have and I answer the best I can for their age. Now their dad on the other hand may blush or feel uncomfortable and say go ask your mother and I say BRING IT!!!!!!!!
Forgot one important thing about respect....respect for themselves.